It is the negative experiences we face in our lives that shape us and give our character a better definition through lessons we learn. For example, if we are to walk on a new street on a new day and it starts to rain one day after another continuously, we would be at a position to understand what needs to be pursued in order to avoid getting wet. That is, on the next day, one carries an umbrella and endures the rain.
If we begin to notice taking the bus that goes on a particular route toward work/school has us to face a delays at our destination, one would begin taking strolls towards the same place to prevent those delays.
The negatives are all around us in our daily lives and are unavoidable, working with them is what has us find peace within ourselves.